@~Christina, thanks for asking. Things are not going well. I confess that I have stepped away from this situation, for at least now.

Yesterday was horrible. My moods are being affected badly. Hormonal stuff may be playing a part (perimenopause?) I am also just flat out crashing from all of the stress these past three plus months.

Yesterday, after my sister asked a similar question, she offered to bring me asparagus from my father's garden. I still need to respond to her. She has so much going on herself. I don't want her to have to drive 38 mins to/from me for just that, unless she wants to get away. I also don't want to talk about my dad today, as bad as that sounds.

I hope your hubby had a better night, and also so that you could, too