Hmm, very interesting, YMIHere.

I'm just going to be honest with you. If you go and live with him, just so he can come home to you and have sex, it won't take long before you find yourself completely emotionally neglected. The guy, going by what you described here is only wanting his own needs met and I don't believe you'll be happy in that situation after about 2 weeks. He can't even say an ordinary nice thing to you by text or internet, so he'll be even worse in real life, ha!!

I do hope I'm wrong, though, as everyone deserves a happy relationship - if that's what they're looking for.

Anyway, thanks for sharing. Maybe someone else here may have a more positive thing to say, than me.