Honestly you two don’t even know each other or dated or became a couple. I am not sure why all this talk about living together and all this other strange stuff. He sounds like he likes to run his mouth and put people down. Doesn’t sound like a good choice of a partner to me.

In addition if you have to beg a man to see you, it’s never going to work. If a man wants to see you he will no matter what. He’d drive a rental car. Many people find other mean of transportation while car is in a auto shop and many people don’t even have a car and use public transportation, it doesn’t mean they can’t go on a date. It’s a convenient excuse. He isn’t very interested in actual relationship with you but it costs him nothing to run his mouth and confuse the heck out of you. It’s a bad sign that he needs to be begged to see you when you are near by but now he makes insane proposals when you are 1200 miles away.

I am glad you are working with a life coach.

When pandemics over I very much recommend therapy to work on building your self esteem and looking into roots of attraction to this type of guy so you can start attracting healthy potential partners who are into you for real, not just in words

Stay safe and good luck!