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Old May 24, 2020, 12:50 PM
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I know there was a family discussion not too long ago about Sunday’s being for rest. Obviously with him being a T there is, I assume, some flex for emergencies. I don’t see this as an emergency so I wouldn’t call today, I might cave and call tomorrow.
If I had to guess I would say he has read all the emails except the most recent (which mentions the passing of the cat). Typically something like that he will reply to even if I do not ask for a reply... he has kind of caught on that I am a crazy cat lady and my most important relationships are with my cats right now.
Where he was off doing self care I know he does not get notifications, at least not reliably.
A while back when he was busy with just life he would reply to my emails with just an emoji or two... like the hug or thumbs up... I may see if he would go back to that.

And he may just honestly be too exhausted and REALLY need this time. I screen shot pics of him when we did video therapy and I have some other public pictures of him... you can see a change in his eyes in the past six months.

He also doesn’t think he is being much of a therapist to me recently but more of just a social support so that may be part of it too.
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