I should also add, I’m in Indiana and while the 500 got postponed this is still a car weekend and, well, T is a guy

I don’t know if he is into any of the local sports obsessions but I know it can be dangerous out here, especially for guys, if you aren’t into the 500, the Brickyard, Colts and/or Pacers... our baseball team isn’t popular so you don’t need to be into baseball (confusing for a NYer)... but cars, football and basketball are all really big here.
Personally I will stick to my garden and discussions with T over copious amounts of mulch.