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Originally Posted by YMIHere
So I met this guy a few months ago. We met once and really hit it off. Chemistry was there in a BIG way. He's hot, funny..
He's giving me excuses.. A week after I got here he tells me let's get together. I told him I'm 1200 miles away. He's telling me I need to move back and we can get a place together. He's WEIRD. There's no normal courtship ritual.
I get text messages that say he needs a live-in secretary sex doll LMAO! He's not the psychopath he sounds like. He can't just say something normal ..
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"Hey, I really like you and I think this could be cool, maybe you should come down here and we'll see what happens."
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but he also knows I appreciate the crazy ish he says.
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I KNOW I've got some self-work to do. I KNOW I lie to myself. I think he can be amazing for me.. he's all about mindfulness.
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Great advice in this thread. I bolded what I felt was the obvious.
You don't know him at all and he's feeding you stories to get what he wants. He's also analyzing you so be careful. He sees your "weaknesses" and will mold you like clay.
I believe you when you say you're lying to yourself. You definitely are with this guy. How he's treating you is not "LMAO", in my opinion. We all want to feel sexy and be desired, and so he's playing this card. I don't believe his desires have anything to do with you, personally, and he'll tire of you very quickly. This is all a game. He's manipulating. Don't fall into the trap.