I totally understand wanting to be healthy or look certain way.

He Is just naive if he thinks men will look at you less if you are 160 versus 140 or they’ll start all staring at you if you’ll be 130. Why is he even concerned if men look at you. Is he not trusting you? Him feeling so possessive and worrying that you will attract other men is concerning. You aren’t an object. Even if men look at you, it doesn’t mean you care about those men.

Hopefully none of this agenda is the case. Hopefully he just likes heavy food and thinks everyone else should too