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Old May 24, 2020, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I totally understand wanting to be healthy or look certain way.

He Is just naive if he thinks men will look at you less if you are 160 versus 140 or they’ll start all staring at you if you’ll be 130. Why is he even concerned if men look at you. Is he not trusting you? Him feeling so possessive and worrying that you will attract other men is concerning. You aren’t an object. Even if men look at you, it doesn’t mean you care about those men.

Hopefully none of this agenda is the case. Hopefully he just likes heavy food and thinks everyone else should too
Yeah he knows I don’t even notice men looking. He does though and he usually mentions it.

It’s hard not to think he doesn’t want me to lose weight whenever I say “ no” and “I’m dieting” and he still tries to convince me to eat the bad foods. So yeah either he just wants company or he wants me to be heavy and therefore maybe less desirable to other men. I just don’t know which is the case.
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