This does hurt alot... have had it done to me... and I got so mad and hurt.... because it does hurt...

And people sometimes saying things to try to help make it feel better for you.. sometimes hurts too...

With my current T... he is more careful... when he changes my standing appt... he says.. I can't do it at this time next week... so would this time be ok......

I personally "do not want to know the "why" of why he is changing my appt"
So I do not know if it is because he will not be in the office.. or another person.. or what..

I told him not to tell me... perhaps.. this is avoidence on my part... but it causes me alot less pain.... and.. it keeps my therapy going....