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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I have not personally had the experience and again will tell you that it’s not healthy. This guy is whacko. He couldn’t even afford to fix his own car, then offers to buy you one so you can drive him to work everyday? .He does want a sex slave/personal secretary to drive him around, live with him and motivate him. Why you’re even entertaining this person seriously is difficult to understand.
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He has no plans to do any of it. Like buy cars and move people in. He likes to say nonsense and feels good that she finds women who fall for it.
I spend a lot of time with teens and sadly many girls with low self esteem find it exciting when boys speak to them in degrading manner because somehow they get this idea that means that the boy likes her. In reality he is making fun of her and puts her down.
Eventually most girls build their self esteem up (often with some help) and boys grow up and start seeing the light and everyone learns that it doesn’t work this way and that’s not how good relationship really works.
That’s why I am confused on this whole story since both participants are grown up. I initially thought everyone is very young and inexperienced.