You guys have a few big issues.

I had sort of a reverse attitude with my husband, maybe not so healthy either. He liked it when I’d look hot, even get looks from other men. He’d make derogatory comments about heavy women in all the time I know him.

Now I’ve gotten heavy; maybe meds or just age. He says he’s okay with it. I don’t feel good about it.

Having willpower to not eat the bad foods is very hard for me, too. Be strong!