I think you can pursue your dreams and make a difference. Many people do that. Not sure why you think others don’t do that. It’s common and not unusual.

How did the topic go from dating this guy to pursuing your dreams. Just like many other
People you can pursue your dream and be in a good relationship.

If this guy is a hard working and reliable and fully employed yet can’t afford the most basics like fixing a car or renting one, then he is not doing things right. Either lacks ambitions or spending money on something like perhaps substance addiction. Something just doesn’t add up with this guy especially since other men you pursued before were also deeply troubled. It never ended well and likely will not end well this time either. You can do better with help of a good therapist

I don’t believe anyone is offended. We are not the ones dating him. It’s just that we think you deserve better than this