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Old May 25, 2020, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Well the summary of this is that you had one date with a guy and now you are posting on the Internet asking strangers If you should move in with him and pursue a relationship.
Actually that wasn't my question. My question was if two people have issues, is it possible that they can help each other to heal? The moving is more of a risk because my sister is asking me to stay here so if I do decide to leave, I'm disappointing her. To do that AND have it not work out would suck.

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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
I think a relationship is hard enough as the simple thing it is, without making a huge deal out of everything. Like the eggs cheese thing. Maybe he makes a big noise because he felt misunderstood, or intruded upon. If you cant get something that simple right, what hope is there for the rest of your relationship?
You do understand that even the cheese thing was a joke right? I brought that up to make a point about how everything is a joke with him. He's ACTING LIKE I'm an idiot who doesn't know that there's a difference between eggs and cheese when he knows I understood and so he answered it at the end with "No eggs." I'm just trying to get clear on if you understood it was a joke. Now, if you're trying to say that you think a relationship is hard enough without having to be the person deciphering his antics, I'll agree with that. Had we not been speaking as much as we have been I may have thought that he was set off over nothing and figured he really is an effing nut job. But that one was SO OVER THE TOP I knew it was a joke immediately. Sometimes he says things that aren't so clear so yes, that can present a challenge, but again, I don't want him to be "NORMAL." His ridiculous sense of humor is the thing that I most appreciate about him so far. He's different and I like different lol.
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