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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well the summary of this is that you had one date with a guy and now you are posting on the Internet asking strangers If you should move in with him and pursue a relationship.
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Actually that wasn't my question. My question was if two people have issues, is it possible that they can help each other to heal? The moving is more of a risk because my sister is asking me to stay here so if I do decide to leave, I'm disappointing her. To do that AND have it not work out would suck.
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Originally Posted by unaluna
I think a relationship is hard enough as the simple thing it is, without making a huge deal out of everything. Like the eggs cheese thing. Maybe he makes a big noise because he felt misunderstood, or intruded upon. If you cant get something that simple right, what hope is there for the rest of your relationship?
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You do understand that even the cheese thing was a joke right? I brought that up to make a point about how
everything is a joke with him. He's ACTING LIKE I'm an idiot who doesn't know that there's a difference between eggs and cheese when he knows I understood and so he answered it at the end with "No eggs." I'm just trying to get clear on if you understood it was a joke. Now, if you're trying to say that you think a relationship is hard enough without having to be the person deciphering his antics, I'll agree with that. Had we not been speaking as much as we have been I may have thought that he was set off over nothing and figured he really is an effing nut job. But that one was SO OVER THE TOP I knew it was a joke immediately. Sometimes he says things that aren't so clear so yes, that can present a challenge, but again, I don't want him to be "NORMAL." His ridiculous sense of humor is the thing that I most appreciate about him so far. He's different and I like different lol.