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Old May 25, 2020, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I am glad to hear about you meeting up with a friend. It sounds wonderful

I always had doubts in every relationship and was always one foot out. Before and during, sometimes on and off but it typically would start early on in a relationship. I always planned my exit pretty much before I even made an entrance.
I hate to admit this, but I used to cling to relationships like a lifeline. I looked to relationships for my happiness for many years because I was very unhappy in my life. Even when it was dysfunctional, I clung to it. Then I learned to find my own happiness and I stopped clinging and looking to relationships to fulfill what was missing.

I hate admitting this, but it's helped me to grow into who I am now.
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Thanks for this!
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