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Old May 25, 2020, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
It is dysfunctional, and you're not seeing that. It is a bad thing to say, "I need someone to motivate me in life". Saying, "I need something to look forward to" is very different. But you stated he needs motivation.

And again, you've only met this guy once and you mentioned moving back for him.

Just be with him, by all means, and try to help each other since that's clearly what you want to do.
Poor choice of words I guess. I can't tell you EVERYTHING that he says and oftentimes I can't remember exact words, I remember my interpretation of them. So he said motivate, but further conversation is what led to my ultimate conclusion of, "Just send me out into the world every day and let me come home to you." Actually, words similar to those were said also.

I'd be moving back for him sooner than I was intending. My sis wanted me to say 5 years, I figured I'd max at three, but one year from today, after I graduate with my Masters would be a good time to go provided I get my ducks in a row properly this time. I NEVER INTENDED TO LIVE IN CT. I just keep getting stuck here lol.
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