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Originally Posted by YMIHere
Now, if you're trying to say that you think a relationship is hard enough without having to be the person deciphering his antics, I'll agree with that.
Sometimes he says things that aren't so clear so yes, that can present a challenge, but again, I don't want him to be "NORMAL.".
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This is also a controlling tactic.. to create uncertainty and confusion at every little thing. Keep this in mind. You shouldn't have to try and "figure things out" as much as you already have. There are times to be straight forward and honest, and times to joke around. Pay attention to what he's joking about.. what he's being vague or indirect about.
Believe me.. I'm with a "jokster". Six years in and still a lot of uncertainty. It's not funny. It's emotionally draining. It's a headache.. a heartache.. and you'll find yourself going NUTS just trying to fit the pieces together. You'll unlikely ever get all the pieces together.