I'm working on getting the facts and it's my intuition that has me defending him. I don't KNOW anything. I take on faith what he says is true. Actually that's not entirely true. At the beginning when he was blowing me off with everyone whispering in my ear at the time I started to think maybe he was married and BSing me. He's not. My profession has me very experienced in working with public records. I KNOW he's currently living with his mother and I know he's divorced. After her surgery and once the pandemic is over they will sell the house, get her into a 55+ type community and then he is free to go and move where he wants instead of driving 80 miles each way to work. So, I guess because I know he's been truthful on things I CAN verify, my intuition tells me he's being truthful on all else.