Well this thread has gone off the rails from the get go.... Many things you posted are things that the vast majority of people are going say """" RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG"""

Yes coming to a Mental health forum and posted all these things about him? yes you had to know people were going to point things out and tell you its probably not ever going to be healthy , maybe because they themselves have been with someone like him , Or watched a friend or loved one get involved in a mess... Of course you dont have to listen to anyones advice .. PC is a kinda place where you pick and choose what might work or not work in your life..

I say at this point just go jump in both feet and practice safe sex and see where the big wave takes you

If you are wanting to stop this thread so you wont get any more advice you can easily click that red triangle and ask that a Mod close the thread

Good luck