Thread: Husband blames me for his unhappiness. I think I want a divorce.
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Old May 26, 2020, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Aviza View Post
My first husband struck me, I left with my year old son. No one cares why your divorced. I know I've lived it.
Aviza, it's GOOD that you left after being hit by your husband.

People will care that someone left a husband who beats them and will say GOOD FOR YOU.

You're thinking is extremely skewed on this issue. You could cause far more harm than good advising her to stay in a violent marriage because it's a lonely world being single and because people will think she gave up without trying. Where in the world is that coming from???????? That is NO reason to stay in a violent marriage.
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