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Old May 26, 2020, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Aviza View Post
So it's okay to put her kids in danger for visitation? My son was abused by his father and eventually put on supervised visits. But the abuse had to happen first. She would be sending her defenseless kids to see dad alone. That's somehow better than trying to heal the marriage?
NO, that is not ok. But her husband has not been abusive towards the children. IF that were to happen, she should call the police right away and child services to get custody.

Again, this is NO reason to stay in a physically violent relationship that is dangerous to her own health, well-being and safety.

Where are you coming from "heal the marriage"?? Violence is not typically "healed". How many physically beaten women actually stay and see improvement after physical violence has occurred???? A very very low number, I am sure.
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