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Originally Posted by divine1966
How realistic are you? Is it a bit of an idealistic view? Like from romantic comedies?
I think it’s a bit of an urban myth or movie hype that people have sex all the time on honeymoons. It maybe comes from times when people were marrying young and it was their first time and they just couldn’t get enough lol
Nowadays most people already live together so why would they go at it like crazy on a honeymoon. Plus most people spend some (sometimes large) chunk of money on honeymoons and go to locations where they can do and see stuff and have memories so they are likely too busy.
I doubt people spend extravagant amount of time being intimate on honeymoons when they can do it at home. I might be wrong of course but I do remember our honeymoon events (I am a scrapbooker so I have a scrapbook of it on a coffee table as well as we have a book of each vacation we had and we like to look at them). I have zero recollection of having/not having sex there
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I guess I get some notions in my head that may be a bit idealistic. Like a girlfriend of mine who is married told me that honeymoon sex is the best sex... that was right before we left to get married and to go on our honeymoon.
I did imagine that we would have had more sex than just on our wedding night since we didn't have much else to do except enjoy each other's company.
I'm not so idealistic that I think life should be like it is in the movies!!!!!! LOL! I am nearly 50 and so I think I'm a lot more grounded and realistic than that.
I just know that I have been rather idealistic in the past, and that sometimes that kind of thinking can intrude on what is reality or what is more realistic to believe and think.