I have mixed feelings about T’s wife... we will either love each other dearly, possibly to the detriment of poor T or we will clash with immense intensity. I don’t foresee a middle ground. She has been known to stop by his office between clients (although I doubt she would do so currently) and she does play a part in his business so it is very possible that I will appropriately meet her at some point in the future.
I also know the look T gives me when I sound like his wife! I called him out on it because I thought it was funny as all get out... he didn’t find it funny and abruptly changed the subject... I love him and all his quirks.
I have worked with a lot of T’s with a wide variety of interests and things... this T and his wife are freaky close to how I would be living if si were in a healthier space right now.