I cannot answer all these questions. Yes, he needs to see a doctor, which I've told him many times. I have no control over what he does or does not do. He is in bad shape physically, in many different ways. All i can say is Iv'e urged him to see a doctor for a long time now.

He was looking into male enhancers to help with his sex drive. He does deal with depression and the pandemic did get to him.

I really don't want to overanalyze any of these issues. Bottom line is: if our sex life doesn't improve over the next couple of months, and IF he yells at me again I am leaving him. I don't want to try and fix issues after just one year of marriage. I'd rather be alone. And I certainly did not get married so that I could try to fix someone else's major problems. If he has major issues, I'm out... and I cannot deal with that. We've only been married one year and together for two. My patience has worn VERY thin.