I have been married for 15 years now. It was arranged, and I met him just a few days before the wedding. We realized there was no intimacy but were hoping we will bond as we spend more time. 2 kids and a decade later, I slowly started losing myself. I am unhappy and anxious all the time. We have nothing in common and don’t enjoy each other’s company. He is in it because we are supposed to. I am in it for the kids. We have lived in denial so far and feel stuck. Everyone around us can see it but I am too scared to leave for my kids. We are now co-habiting well but can’t move forward with our lives. Divorce is scary. What can I do?