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Cardooney
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Default May 27, 2020 at 04:54 PM
 
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
People don’t always understand or sometimes deny side effects of pot because it’s not always noticeable right away but long terms are many and they are bothersome especially for young people. Personally I’d never live with pot smokers. It will be either me or pot. And I am out if it’s pot.

Sadly you can only control yourself. You can’t make people stop their habits

I recommend therapist for yourself actually you can do Al Anon because it’s not just for alcohol.
I had an alcoholic father, and my husband is so similar to him, minus the alcohol thankfully because that absolutely would be a deal breaker for me. Some people just can’t drink and my husband is one of them.
Fortunately/Unfortunately with weed there is less destruction, but when abused, it is indeed destructive as well.

I would love to give an ultimatum about his use, but he just doesn’t care what I think about it at this point. I could threaten divorce, but I don’t feel good about that either.
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