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Old May 27, 2020, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted by guy1111 View Post
Sorry you are going through this. After only a year or so. That is tough. I wish relationships weren't so damn tough. They should be enjoyable most of the time with some bumps here and there. Not so much high and low chaos. I wish people would want to change for themselves and for their mates as well. If we all went away to better ourselves all the time we probably wouldn't need to do so much work together. It would probably be mostly enjoyment when we are together.
I don’t see that the issue with relationship struggles is that people won’t change. I don’t believe people need to change. I think most relationship issues come from people going for wrong partners and then hoping they change. I wouldn’t want anyone to change me. Of course there should be compromise here and there but in our core we are who we are

Having said that, everyone could be better. But if relationship is bad unless other person changes, then there is usually not much chance .Sadly

Imho of course
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