I so understand how you feel. My T and I have a close bond and I like her very much. But she forgets 3/4 of what I tell her. It's annoying (very), and it hurts. Especially because I easily remember details of things people tell me, her lack of recall makes me even more hurt.
I wish I had some good advice for you. All I can say is that most therapists seem to have poor recall. I don't know why that is...maybe they're focusing more on our feelings and reactions than on facts.
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