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Originally Posted by divine1966
I understand. I tried to change people too. Been there done that. Took me long time to learn that it doesn’t work. Having said that, of course there needs to compromise so some change in people’s behavior is inevitable.
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I agree. When there is a problem, it sometimes just needs a minor change or compromise. But it’s not supposed to be enormously difficult. Then, I agree, they are wrong for you. But, my fear is that no one will be right. A psychiatrist actually said to me that is the case for me.
We go into relationships knowing there will be some issues, and prepared to cope with them. But some are too triggering.