I am so sorry. What he did was absolutely wrong. At no point did you give consent for any of the other things and you explicitly told him no as well.

I so empathize with you. I want to say that justice is the way to go. I had a bad experience in which I reported and it blew up in my face. It became so turned around and I was so humiliated by the system. All of the things that you've mention were like the things that were thrown back into my face. Why this? Why that? What did you wear? Why?

Blessings to you and I wish for your healing. I know it is not easy road.