No one is perfect and obviously looking for a perfect spouse isn’t realistic. As long as people are comfortable and happy together who cares about perfection or what other people should consider good marriage. Whatever works for you. We aren’t perfect ourselves either.

I have kind of practical approach though. Ask yourself if it’s a deal breaker. If it’s, then I don’t care what other people say, I am out, I am old enough to know that squared lid won’t fit round pot. If it’s just something goofy and annoying but not a deal breaker, then you accept that’s how it is and enjoy the differences.

It’s all about feeling of content and comfort for me at this point in life. If you are happy and content with a partner and he is your best friend then who cares that the person isn’t perfect. Who is? Just see how you feel and go from there. Listen to your guts