Well I did it. I sent an email to my Pastor T and just told him that I thought our goals were diverging and it was causing me anxiety. I thought it was important that my goal remains paramount and also that we don't have enough privacy doing therapy via Skype in my dining room with my parents lurking about. I told him that I hope he doesn't take it personal because it is about me and not about anything he has done. (Although he hasn't been listening to my goals so I lied a bit there). And that I thought we should just go back to Pastor and Parishioner and of course remain friends. Does that sound okay? I hope so because I already sent it. Now I'm anxious!!!!! Waiting for the reply!