I am more perplexed on how someone at age 47 cannot afford a couch. You can find deals and low or no interest financing. It’s a couch, not a house. People with low income buy couches. It’s not a luxury item. And pillows? If they suck he can buy new ones. How did he live before he met you? Did someone else support him?

Did he not buy anything in his life? Who’d buy him stuff if he didn’t meet you? Would he manage it somehow? How do single people live?

Did he disclose early on his financial situation, lack of income and savings and his inability to purchase even the basic things-very bad credit or no credit? It would be a complete deal breaker for many people that the other person would have to rely on them financially. So I wonder if he explained this reality to you when you’ve met