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Originally Posted by Have Hope
My best and closest girlfriend just told me that I don't love him enough to want to work through these issues.
I don't know what to think. I have to think for myself. I have to figure this out on my own.
And to top it off, I just got rejected for a job I was excited about. And I made a big mistake at work today. It may go unnoticed, not sure yet.
Today has just been an all around awful day.
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Oh dang. Sorry. That’s a tough time with a new job. There will be another one.
Your friend is off base. What’s love got to do with it. She made it sound like you were married for 25 years and person unexpectedly got sick or lost their job and you are being selfish not willing to help him with it. It’s somebody you literally just got together two years ago and you have concerns about your future with the person. It’s not like you adopted a baby and took up an obligation to raise him. You can love people and still not be a doormat, be realistic and consider all options. Maybe I am just not that nice of a person but this is unrealistic in my books.
Consulting with a lawyer is always a good idea in all situations, even the most wonderful ones.