I'm both as someone with bipolar and someone who is partner is bipolar. I'm the one that in mood swings talks about divorce. We have a 6-month rule about making big decisions. So if I want to divorce I have to wait 6 months and then decide after that when I still want one. I would suggest if you are going to stay in the relationship and then you need to get a therapist also. Medication is super important to most of us but it doesn't stop all mood swings. So let's find a good therapist comes in hand. If you want to pursue this I will get into couples therapy. I would talk to him but only about going to couples therapy.

Even though I asked for a divorce I still love him. I want to keep them as friend. I don't want my mood swings to ruin what we have. I get super agitated with him. I think he's trying to ruin my fun. And tons of other things but I won't get into here. Both of them me one's insecure, afraid, I'm really doesn't want to f*** things up.