Ian, about the hugs, I have to tell you that I had a feeling you weren't the type to want internet hugs but was afraid you would be left out since everyone else was getting them. I should have gone with my gut instinct on that one and I apologize. And I think that you asked relatively nicely on that too. I really wish that I could sit down and have a talk with you in person. Maybe then I could understand what it is that you need. One of the things I am trying to learn is to listen and not just jump in with advice right away, but that's kind-of the way it works here. All we have to go on is what you have told us.
Take care,
Wendy

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