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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ MsLady, I don't mean to sound mean by saying this, but you yourself have been with a toxic partner for six years. I don't think you're married to him, but you share children, right? It's hard to just up and leave, as you personally have experienced or have decided for yourself. And it does take planning. |
Leaving definitely takes time and planning. We have to be in a certain mental state where we "know" it's for the best. It's hard for sure, whether we have children or not. I really feel for you. As I've said already, don't act on anything right now with this covid19 affecting everyone. I hope things will get better for you, either way.
As for me, I'd say our relationship took a hit when I was pregnant with our second child who's one now. We've had many stretches of good times and when covid19 hit, it took a turn for the worst. So I get what you mean about the good times making it hard to end a relationship with someone we care about.