people tend to respond most to a)humour b) despair

they're a bit polarizing, plus people know what to say or do.. and i suppose this thread shows some respond to anger as well... i'm not sure why. i suppose i feel bad you feel ignored because i hate that feeling. i wasn't here, so no idea which question you're talking about. people put a lot of their hearts in this place trying to hold each other's heads above water though... how is swearing at us going to help?

here's the rule i use for myself, k? i post as if i were talking to my journal, and yes, i do sometimes desperately hope for answers... i just get a lot of "working through" done by posting.. that's why a lot of mine tend to be very personal.

when i am around i try to answer 2-3 threads.. and that is it, regardless. So.. i will answer you sometimes, just try not to yell at me k?