my T tells me when he gets frustrated, and we talked about how i felt about that (i am ok with it even though it hurts too)... but we talked about it - see the difference? He also said that being frustrated, whether he tells me or not, is normal but if he got *angry* then it is completely about HIM... he said anger had to come from his OWN stuff and was not my fault. He said HIS stuff, ie anger, had no reason to be in the therapy room with me.

so, he does show emotions, but yes, keeps them in check.. no, doesnt get angry at me

if you dont want to write it out here it's ok... but can you write yourself a letter (yes, literal) and answer to yourself why you feel you need to see *this* T and not get a new one? She cant be the only game in town.