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Old May 31, 2020, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Was he the one who wanted to get married and proposed? Did he put some pressure on you?

The other events that happened, seem logical to me. You moved in with him because that was your best option. You said you wanted to get married because you had never been. But knowing the financial situation, I wonder if he pushed for it.

You have your eyes wide open now and are making choices. That’s just to be human.
He did tell me early on that he wanted to marry me. And he cried a lot, tears of joy, because he told me he had found the woman he looked for his entire life. I believed him. He did push for marriage in that he didn’t take things slowly and he wooed me like crazy over the next many months.

I really hope it wasn’t due to his bankruptcy because then that means he’s using me for financial security.
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