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Originally Posted by Have Hope
He did tell me early on that he wanted to marry me. And he cried a lot, tears of joy, because he told me he had found the woman he looked for his entire life. I believed him. He did push for marriage in that he didn’t take things slowly and he wooed me like crazy over the next many months.
I really hope it wasn’t due to his bankruptcy because then that means he’s using me for financial security.
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When we are married, we are each other's financial security (even if someone doesn't work) because even the little things we do (the groceries we buy, etc) all add up. When we pick who we marry, IMO, it can be both romantic and practical and so are all the life events that lead up to the marriage. I sometimes think the connections we make were what was meant to be.