Thread: Marriage may need to end: enormous grief and sadness
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Old May 31, 2020, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by MsLady View Post
I don't understand this. Why not have him understand where you're at with this marriage?
I have my reasons. And why on earth would I make things worse during a pandemic when we're stuck at home together 24/7? We're trying to improve things... or he is trying to make improvements. I have to give him that chance. Plus, he should already be aware. When he yelled at me three weeks ago, I told him this is not the marriage I signed up for. Divorce is mentioned in nearly every fight. And why would I tell him that I have doubts when he is trying to make things better? It would only cause a fight, tension and distance.

I am approaching all of this in the way that I feel is RIGHT for me. Maybe another person would do things very differently. But I have to do what is right and most comfortable FOR ME.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 31, 2020 at 06:08 PM.
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