When we got engaged, I had written in my journal that I had found the best man I've ever met, and the best man overall. I was very happy.

It was several months into our engagement when I began to see more of his behaviors, and then, just before the wedding he blew up at me, and for the months just following our wedding.

But at the time of engagement, I was happy with him and really thought I had hit the jackpot.