sure. when someone talks to me, my automatic response is to relate to a person...in relation i can find the symptathy, compassion, insight, experience, etc. that i need to carry on certain conversations. i've realized this about myself. when ppl talk to me, i, lots of times, apply what they're talking about to self and what i did do, would do, could do, etc. in response.

for instance if you were to post about a trip you took, my automatic response is to find some relation in my own life and share that way. if you were to talk about something i'd never done like taking a trip to the carribean, it would be an automatic response to think what that would be like for me and what i would've done if i could, etc.

it's hard to put into words, but i've always been that way and t knows that it's also something i subconciously require from ppl as well before i'll share with them. it's one of the strange things about me...one of the many i hope i made SOME kind of sense, because i'm getting confused myself...lol.

kd