I have posted an update on my husband's health and situation on my thread..

I am just running out of mental and physical ability to deal with this all, But I will, I have to, I have no choice.

I am trying to find time for self care, Its very hard to do.

My daughter put up a beautiful post on Facebook about my husband, To her he is a second dad. She hates that she can not come to see us Because of Covid.

My husband's middle son was suppost to get his instrument testing to keep working towards getting another step up to a bigger plane. He is a flight attendant. Well he and Steve is wanting to let him come up here and take his test as he would not have to wait 4 months. But because of Covid all flight testing in Miami is backed up approx 4 months.

I absolutely do not want the kids up here, Many people are asymptomatic just shedding illness.. He is back flying for American Airline, He is literally in a petri dish of possible Covid and any other illness. I do NOT feel it is safe, if my husband were to catch it he would not survive, I am doubtful I would make it due to my Asthma and Biologic. I feel bad for his son , but I also am angry that he would even think it would be okay to come here with his dad so ill Why risk infection your ill father?????.. Steve said well he could wear a mask ... like he will wear one all the time while he is here And now there is larger debate on whether mask are helpful anyway.

This might turn into a very difficult round of talks with Steve to understand that the risk is too high...