I’ve been reading these posts off and on for awhile instead of responding right away as to not redirect the attention back to myself. And it’s allowed me to gain some healthy insight! I’ve often felt that I’ve been confined to a small subset of people, in the guise of keeping myself diverse with who I hang out with, but it often ranged from squeaky-clean perfectionists to downright toxic, in other words, it was either not even a dang it to freely use the big bombs for conversation or verbal abuse. But everyone here posting have helped me gain a greater perspective beyond what I’ve seen that led to the rather B&W thinking I’ve been guilty of in recent times.
Thanks so much everyone for pitching in and sharing your opinions!