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When I wrote about how a therapist should be able to adapt to the client my viewpoint was that many therapies given within (our) public health care are shaped by a lack of resoruces. That means therapists do sometimes know what their patients need but they can´t offer that due to financial constraints.

The latest therapist I saw wrote extensively in my records about what I need so she did understand my needs but at the same time she wrote they couldn´t offer me that as the facility´s mission and responsibility don´t cover what I need from therapy.
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I need a personcentered therapist who knows about transference work and who can combine those two modalities. I need someone who also knows about sexology and who can talk about such issues on a psychological level. I think this is very hard to find as therapy here is often focused on one single issue, for example depression, and by that you´re most likely to end up with a therapist that knows about one single condition but can´t address other issues or addresses them in a parsimonious way.

My counselor talks about different issues in a very shallow way and often refers to something she heard or read, but without asking questions or follow through on anything. But in her case I know that´s because her training wasn´t as a therapist but as a psychiatric aide or similar and she doesn´t know how to talk to me on a deeper level.

But it´s still a problem as they won´t help me with a referall and I´m stuck in all this due to my need for welfare.