Thanks so much for the answers! My T dx'ed me as borderline, but honestly I don't have abandonment issues-- I just tend to react to stress and conflict the way confusedgurl08 does, but even that has been improving over the years. But lol, I can't really imagine me reacting like that to fearing abandonment... sometimes I don't want to see someone before they leave, because it will make me sad, but... I don't think I've ever reacted quite like that before. Actually, I'm usually the strong one when I'm separated from people, especially my boyfriend. *scratches head*

I think most of my issues are just growing up issues... as I get older they seem to be getting better on their own, so I think it's ridiculous to diagnose someone with borderline PD before they're fully developed... would anyone agree?