Hello RJN: I'm sorry I don't think your concern is one I can really be of help with. (Hopefully there will be other PC members who will have some insights & information they can share.) However I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So I thought I would at least welcome you to Psych Central.

Here are links to 10 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that (hopefully) may be of some help:

Are You Ready For Divorce? 8 Questions You Should Answer

9 Tips to Navigate Common Stages of Divorce

10 Divorce Precepts to Understand Before Filing | The Exhausted Woman

The 40 Do's and Don'ts During a Divorce | The Exhausted Woman

5 Suggestions for Navigating a Contentious Divorce

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/divor...-make-it-real/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/kids-an...-tough-issues/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/when-on...-other-doesnt/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/want-a...dium=popular17

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/psych...ons-not-to-be/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.