Hi Jesyka,

I think she might be doing this to you only because you are the only one who called her out on her behavior. Probably the best thing to do is to minimize contact with her. If you are in group situations where she is present, it's probably better to just try to avoid her in the group too. I realize what I have offered isn't a really satisfying solution but experience has shown me that for people with really entrenched behaviors (this seems to be the case with this woman--she has been like this for a long time) they are unlikely to change. And the sad reality is that they can also become vindictive if they feel threatened. That seems to be what you are describing.