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Originally Posted by Bill3
Controlling explosiveness at work and controlling explosiveness at home are two different matters.
At work there usually are swift and significant negative consequences for exploding. At home, though, not necessarily.
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That’s true. It’s not the same.
What I was saying though is that if one can control explosive anger at work even if just out of fear of being fired, they should be able to control it at home. Me and my brother had this discussion the other day about people who act less than appropriate in a family yet are very appropriate at work, they clearly can help themselves.
And there could be consequences at home. If you get fired from a new job because you exploded, you can be fired from a position of girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancé/spouse when you repeatedly explode, that could be your consequence. I know it’s not that straight forward of course